Pauline Potts (Yonts)
Gary, please forgive my long delay in responding. I was thrilled to get your prompt response with Mrs. Barbara Sheinkopf’s address. I just hope I’ll get a chance to write her before too long now!
I was so sorry to hear about your mother’s passing, and so soon after the reunion. Sorry I didn’t get a chance to meet her. How wonderful that you were able to care for her. Neither of my parents even made it to 80.
A major reason I’m so late in responding to you or anyone right now is that we’ve had an ongoing family tragedy this summer. My husband’s niece, like you, wanted to care for her elderly parents (my husband’s sister and brother-in-law) who were both needing a caregiver at this point in their lives. She (the niece) and her husband successfully moved her mom from Eastern Washington to Central Texas (several hours north of us), and then left her mom at home with older children and a friend of the family while they went back to get her dad and more of their belongings. But on July 4th there was a terrible accident en route in Idaho, killing her dad and leaving my husband’s niece and her husband in critical condition. They are still not recovered enough to travel without medical transport, and, of course, the insurance won’t cover that. We didn’t even learn about the accident for a week; niece Laura had been the family communicator. (I’m not even on Facebook myself; hadn’t realized how important that can be in this day and age!) Anyway, we took off work and drove up to see Michel’s now widowed sister in Texas and check out her living arrangement, etc. But by early August it was all too much for her, and she was hospitalized herself. Again, we weren’t informed until much later; we had been frantically trying to get responses from anyone. Once we found out, we drove up to visit my husband’s sister in the hospital, etc. She passed away August 29th. Her daughter (my husband’s niece) is still on a trach tube up in Idaho with the family still trying to raise funds (on GoFundMe) for medical transport to get to the VA hospital in Texas where they would be closer to family and friends. This is so terrible for everyone, the way one accident can destroy or disrupt so many lives! It reminds us to cherish every moment we have with our loved ones, and we’ve seen how important it is to have a living will, medical directives, etc. Any praying friends out there, please keep our family in prayer! Thanks for reading all this.
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